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An online dating how to wasn’t the first thing that came to mind this morning for my daily post, but I thought, what the fuck: they probably need it. As we all know, sites like Match.com, eHarmony and OkCupid are dominating the dating world.
Now, as I have stated before, being a pick up artist isn’t about hanging around the house and watching a computer screen hoping for a girl to email you, BUT, there are some really great girls online and you can increase your chances of finding a good one by throwing another line in the water. So, without anymore babbling, here’s an online dating how to on making the best impression.
1) Online Dating- How To Increase Responses
Typically, if a girl is not interested, she’s not going to respond. What I have found is that there are a lot of girls that want to get dates, but have a lot of trouble transitioning from the online world to a real life date. They are nervous, anxious, hesitant, and this all starts from the first email that they get from you.
Now, I have a way to completely revolutionize how you approach women online. It differs from everything that you will do in an actual approach, but it works almost every time. What you want to do is make her comfortable by establishing rapport right from the start. Notice, I didn’t say attraction, I said rapport.
With rapport comes attraction and this works online even more than in real life because women have a barrier up they can hide behind. They can stop emailing or chatting with you at any time. They can pull the plug and this gives them a sense of power. Use this to your advantage and feel free to pass this online dating how to along to your friends so they can use it.
“Hey, I saw your profile on here and you seem like a pretty normal girl. I have had some really weird experiences on here so far. There was the girl that told me she loved me after 4 texts, then the girl that was actually married, then the girl that asked me how kids I wanted. Anyway, I thought I would give it a shot with you and maybe have a normal date. -Name”
BAM! Instant rapport. You have opened up to her, you have showed vulnerability by telling her something personal and you have established normalcy as well as a sense of humor. All with about 4 lines. If you haven’t had weird experiences, just make something up.
2.) The Time Constraint
Alright, so here is where my online dating how to will actually coincide with some real game. You always want to give the girl a time constraint. Remember this in your online game you will get a of more email responses. I learned this from The Online Game Internet Attraction. I always like to say that I’m going to cancel my subscription or I don’t know
how much longer I’m going to be on the site because of the crazies.
It makes women feel a little more comfortable with you and it takes the desperation away from the stigma of online dating. You can send this message after the girl has responded to one of your messages, but don’t use it right off the bat. Always include your phone number in the message. I almost always get a number grab when I do this. It’s excellent.
Here’s an example:
“Hey, I’m not sure how much longer I’m going to be on here. It’s starting to just get too ridiculous. But here’s my number. Shoot me a text or give me a call anytime. You seem cool and I’d love to take you out sometime. 555-555-5555 -Name”
It really is that easy. You’ll be surprised by how many girls will send you their number back.
3. Transitioning To Texts
Now my online dating how to is going to transcend into a texting tutorial. First of all, don’t worry if they don’t text you first. Many of them won’t. They have too much pride or the fact that they have about a billion other guys texting them, messaging them or hitting on them in real life.
Wait one day and then text them. You don’t want to seem desperate so don’t text them right off the bat. After you have read this online dating how to, go to our texting article for more advice on how to text a girl. Until then, here’s a short sample of the first text you can use. It’s a great conversation starter.
“Hey, this is ____. Here’s my number in case you haven’t saved it. How is your day going?”
After that, let the texting begin. Girls will be much more comfortable going from a text to a date than an online dating site messaging system to date. It’s just a fact. This is kind of like bouncing a girl from a bar to your house. You have to ease her into it. Accept with online dating, you use medium instead of locations.
